मेरी खुशियों का सागर!

 Dearest Neer, I wanted to write lot of things in June 2024 which I missed in the previous post made on 1st June 2024. But I probably missed to write due to my back pain. Today I am writing because today you did something different. First, today you bring out your skates and ask me to go downstairs. This is something different because last time when you did skating was the skating competition on 19th Oct. You competed in age group 6-8 years although you were not completely 6 while all other boys were almost 8. As expected, you came last and you were so broken-heart that you denied not to try skates completely anymore. I had tried many times to take you for skating but you didn't agree. Today, you did the restart your self. You need to understand that it was not your fault if you stood last in the skating. It was because you were competing with the boys who had 30% more physical power than you. You were 6 and they were 8. I know that I could not  explain you this maths. I and N...

 Dearest Neer, I am writing after long time. I checked the blog and found i had written small note on Oct 2022. It's been around 18 months that I am writing down something when  I am in Greader Noida now. I had shifted to Gr. Noida in Sep 2023 as I changed my job from Daikin Neemrana to LG. We all had good time during 2023 in Neemrana and your schooling was going as usual but i was quite fond of taking photos of yours whenever I visited Parle school during PTM. I kept posing those photos on instagram. You always have been a happy child. In neemrana we had very good & spacious society where you enjoyed cycling and rolling scooter a lot. Almost every evening we walked around the society, you played in park. You had so much love for playing with sand & dirt of the park. We had purchased skates from Decathalon Dehradun but you were afraid to ride on them. I tried to push you but you didnt agree to take skates to the society roads. You tried skates couple of times in the co...

 प्रिय  नीर  तुम अब दिसंबर में 4 साल के हो जाओगे. पिछले  6 महीनों  से तुम स्कूल जा रहे हो and i found that you have learnt lot of things in last 6 months. When we put you in school in April, your speech was limited but now you are speaking complete sentence. You have started your on stories although they are not very clear to us. Still you try to dictate the stories to your mamma. I found that a lot of things are going on in your imagination and in every story you have Arnab as a bad guy and you portrait yourself as a good guy. अभी तुम्हे ' दूसरे ' शब्द का इस्तेमाल नहीं आता तो तुम 'अलग type ' कह कर बताते हो. जैसे maine तुमसे पूछा -नीर तुम्हे स्कूल में सू सू कौन  करता है? पल्लवी madam ? Tumne जवाब दिया - नहीं , अलग type  की मैडम.

 Dearest Neer We visited dehradun in August month on Rakshabandhan. My car had completed one year and its second service was due. I took you to the service centre in the morning thinking of your interest in mechanical things and cars. You were not bored there but service took quite long. There was one girl who was taking care of customers. She talked with you, pampered you and offered you laddu and banana. She found your eye lid hair on your cheek. She asked you to wish something. Initially you couldn’t understand what it meant? She explained so you put your wish straight forward. Your answer was quite practical. You wished for chips. Then she got you two packet of chips.

 Dearest Neer, You were about to turn 3 years when I purchased one notebook for you. There was car on the front cover... You said- papa, McQueen... I could not understand. You repeated. I searched it on internet and found that it is a famous cartoon car. I and Neha both were surprised and proud of you.

 Dearest Neer, Now you have crossed 3 and half years of age but it's my 4th post only. I believe your mom has written more letters to you till now...Some I have read but some I may not have read... I don't know...Probably she will share it with you me later. April is the month when schools open. But my childhood has been quite different than yours. In village, till my 12th standard, schools opened 1st july only. But now trend may have changed in villages also. The second conspicuous difference is the entry age... I entered the school after completing 5 years of age. This was normal. But as we, as a country, are progressing, I find everyone is in hurry. सब इतनी जल्दवाजी में हैं कि कोई नही चाहता कि उनका बच्चा किसी से पीछे राह जाए। लेकिन सच्चाई यही है कि क्लास सब 1st कभी नही आएंगे। इसलिए, रैंकिंग ठीक है but पढ़ाई का एकमात्र लक्ष्य और सत्य नही।  इंटरनेट की दुनिया ने सभी को इतना बेचैन कर दिया है कि सब्र नही। पिछले 10 सालों में edtech companies की ऐसी बाढ़ आई है कि हर किसी के अपने वाद...

 Dearest Neer, आज हम हरिद्वार से घर बापिस आये। 18 को होली खेलने के बाद, 19 की सुबह को हम हरिद्वार को निकले। प्लान के according सुबह 8 बजे हम जैतरा पहुँच चुके थे। फीना से तुम, मम्मी और अम्मा थे और जैतरा से 7 सदस्य। प्रखर, सूर्या, अंश, मानु, रचना बुआ, फूफा जी, शुभांगी बुआ और सूर्या की अम्माजी। 2 कार से हम लोग हरिद्वार दोपहर पहुँचे। शांतिकुंज पहुँचे। हमे वहां पर ठहरने की व्यवस्था करने में अच्छा खासा वक़्त लगा। हमे उम्मीद थी कि अच्छे रूम्स मिलेंगे लेकिन but it was not as per my or Neha's expectations. Although it may be a good from other perspective. Anyways, we had to adjust for a night.  Before reaching haridwar, we took a halt at a restaurent- punjabi khaira. We all took the snacks like burger, sandwich, coldrink and icecream. But when we reached shanti kunj and could settle down ourselves in more than an hour and found no fool available at 3 PM, I realised that the restaurant halt was the best part of the journey. Otherwise, it could have turned out a cheerful journey because w...